Sunday, November 30, 2025

There is something special about chai


There’s something about chai that no other beverage offers by way of sukoon—just as there’s no word, other than sukoon, that describes the supreme feeling of contentment it induces in those who take a deep, soulful sip.

Chai (called tea in English with not exactly the same flavor) is like a divine gift for its hundreds of millions of lovers around the world.

Global it may be, but chai has a special connection with four countries: India, China, Japan, and England.

Legend has it that Bodhidharma, the renowned 5th century monk who taught at the Shaolin monastery in China, once took it upon himself to meditate for a long time. But he fell asleep before his avowed period of meditation could end. When he woke up, he was so enraged that he cut off his eyelids in repentance and threw them to the ground.

Tea leaves grew for the first time at the very spot where the monk’s eyelids fell.

And from then on, tea is said to have become the favorite drink of monks who wanted to stay awake in their meditation practice.

Another Chinese legend attributes the origin of tea drinking to the mythical emperor Shen-Nung (also called Shennong or the Divine Farmer)—several centuries before the Christian era. It says that he discovered the medicinal properties of tea when some leaves from a wild plant accidentally fell into his pot of boiling water.

It was not until the Tang dynasty (618-907), however, that tea consumption became widespread in China. It was also during the Tang dynasty that Lu Yu wrote one of the first authoritative books on this subject, The Classic of Tea.

Japan, too, saw the introduction and spread of tea drinking through monks. In the Heian period (794-1185), Saicho and Kukai were among the first to bring tea seeds to be planted in Nippon—though it is the Zen monk Eisai who is credited with popularizing the drink in the late 12th century. Eisai also wrote a book, Record of Drinking Tea on Health, whose Japanese title, if you ask me, has a cute Hindi ring to it: Kissa Yojoki.

By the 15th century, the tea ceremony in Japan had evolved into a highly refined art form, reaching its pinnacle under tea master Rikyu a little later. Chanyou, the Japanese “Way of Tea”, has four key principles to the whole regimen of serving and drinking tea: Wa (harmony), Kei (respect), Sei (purity), and Jaku (tranquility). Applied together, they guide you to a more balanced and mindful way of celebrating tea.

The term “Teaism” was coined by the Japanese scholar and art critic Okakura Kakuzo to describe the unique worldview associated with the Japanese way of tea, going beyond the presentation aspects that Westerners usually focus on.

In his celebrated classic, The Book of Tea, first published in 1906, Kakuzo writes:

“The outsider may indeed wonder at this seeming much ado about nothing. What a tempest in a tea-cup! he will say. But when we consider how small after all the cup of human enjoyment is, how soon overflowed with tears, how easily drained to the dregs in our quenchless thirst for infinity, we shall not blame ourselves for making so much of the tea-cup. Mankind has done worse. In the worship of Bacchus, we have sacrificed too freely; and we have even transfigured the gory image of Mars. Why not consecrate ourselves to the queen of the Camelias, and revel in the warm stream of sympathy that flows from her altar? In the liquid amber within the ivory-porcelain, the initiated may touch the sweet reticence of Confucius, the piquancy of Lao-tse, and the ethereal aroma of Sakyamuni himself.”

Beautiful words that evoke the serene, profound imagery that nothing but tea can encompass in its majestic sweep of history.

There are not-so-elegant aspects of history associated with tea as well, to put it mildly. In Europe, tea consumption remained confined to the elite after Dutch and Portuguese traders first brought it to the continent in the 16th and early 17th centuries. Soon after, the British East India Company established a monopoly on the tea trade from China. When taxes were reduced to make tea more accessible, its popularity exploded, requiring huge imports from China to satisfy demand.

But massive imports of tea [besides porcelain and silk] from China caused a silver deficit, prompting Britain to smuggle opium from India to China (When the Chinese tried to stop it, this led to the Opium Wars.)

To reduce over-reliance on China for their tea, the British went about setting up tea plantations in the Indian states of Assam and Darjeeling (the first one was set up in 1837 at Chabua in Upper Assam). The first few chests of Assam tea arrived in London from India in 1839; by 1888, the British imported more tea from India than from China. By the turn of the century, Chinese tea imports were just a pale shadow.

As for its consumption in India, tea was initially shunned by the people. This was partly because of the crushing, sub-human conditions under which the indentured laborers used by the British colonists worked, and partly because of tea’s high price. Besides, the majority of Indians had never tasted the beverage. After the Great Depression brought down the prices and created a surplus of tea waiting to be exported from India, however, the British rulers turned their attention to the market within India. They undertook what’s arguably the largest marketing campaign in Indian history, using hundreds of “tea propagandists” and “tea vans” that dispensed millions of free cups of tea to anyone who was interested in tasting it.

The marketing tactics used in the campaign were later duplicated and built upon by private companies, including Brooke Bond and Lipton. But it would take several decades of concerted, persistent effort to make the foreign tea into local chai, the unofficial national drink of India.

As of today, the sound of “chai-chai-chai” forms the ubiquitous buzz at thousands of bus and train stations across India. The banter and gossip of the milling workers, laborers, and good-for-nothings over chai at countless tapris and tea joints mingles effortlessly with the silent march of a nation perpetually suspended in motion.

I think that’s more history than our brains can handle at a given time!

So let’s get back to chai and sukoon.

The Japanese ceremony is marked by elaborate rituals, the art of arranging flowers, attention to details regarding the utensils, and the performative steps for serving, drinking, and washing up.

But for me and, I suspect, millions of Indian chai-lovers like me, it’s fairly simple and straightforward.

Boil some tea leaves in water. Add milk and sugar to taste. (A hint of ginger for ginger tea aficionados would be great!) Serve with an ear-to-ear grin and unmistakable warmth.

Within minutes, the server and the served are co-travelers to a land where worries dissolve in the vapor-mist wafting from the cups. Where stories are shared with loving memories or unrestrained laughter. Where you can nod your head with understanding or shake it in disbelief with equal ease.

Be it the scorching summer of mid-year, the freezing cold of December-January, or the redeeming drizzle in between, if you have chai at hand and someone to share it with, there’s nothing much else to ask for.

Bun-maska or biscuits, perhaps. But that’s about it.

To borrow a line from Chaayos, “Wo sukoon se jeete hain jo chai peete hain.”

Yes, there's nothing quite like chai.


Tuesday, November 4, 2025

The divine, magical sound of gurbani

 


I have been listening to bhajans since early childhood but it is only in the past couple of years that I fell under the divine spell of shabad gurbani.

And once I began listening to the heavenly voices of ragis such as Bhai Harjinder Singh Ji, Bhai Satvinder Singh Ji, Bhai Joginder Singh Ji Riar, and other blessed souls, I just couldn’t stop. 

It is as if amrit (nectar) in the form of sound is flowing into the very core of my being. No wonder gurbani is also known as amritbani.

“Tohi mohi, mohi tohi, antar kaisa?…” (You are me and I am you—what’s the difference?)

“Sawal sunder Ramaiya, mera mann laga tohe…” (My dark and beautiful Lord, my heart belongs to you)

“Aao sakhi har mel kareha…” (Come my friend, let’s experience union with the divine)

“Aisa naam niranjan hoye, je ko mann jane mann koye…” (The name of the Spotless One is enshrined truly within a devotee’s heart)

These and many more soul-stirring shabads have filled my life ever since. They are the words of saint-poets and gurus like Kabir and Guru Ram Das and mainly taken from Guru Granth Sahib.

Sometimes, I’m unable to decipher the meaning of individual words but the whole composition, often playing on loop, makes perfect sense. 

Before long, feelings of harmonious balance, abiding peace, and deep gratitude take root in my heart. The mind’s petty objections give way to a more exalted existence. Compassion and understanding flow freely.

I come away drenched in bliss.



Here are some YouTube links you may want to try or share with your loved ones: Mera mann laga tohe, Aisa naam niranjan, Bhinni rainarhiye chamkan taare, Tumri sharan tumhari aasa, Kabir tu tu karta tu hua

Sunday, September 21, 2025

The many joys of doing ‘walking meditation’


 

The image of Buddha sitting in meditation is etched in our hearts. But there’s another way the Enlightened One practiced meditation, and he enjoyed it greatly: Walking meditation.


After tens of thousands of mindful steps, I realize why it’s such a lovely thing. You are doing two of the best things a human being can possibly do: walking as well as meditating.


How can it be? Aren’t you supposed to sit still while doing meditation?


True, that’s the usual way meditation is practiced. But walking meditation is a bit different. Let me share a few observations from my own experience.


There are different ways and purposes of walking. You could be walking because your car broke down and you didn’t get a ride. You might be walking to school, which is not far away. Or maybe you are just hurrying to the market to pick up groceries.


In such routine acts of walking, our focus is mainly on the task at hand: to reach our destination, to get something from a place, to fulfill an objective.


There are some other reasons to walk as well, like when you are hiking. That’s like a sporting or outdoor activity you enjoy.


So, what does it mean to walk and meditate?


It means infusing your walk with the ease, simplicity, and bliss of meditation. It means to practice mindfulness while walking.


How you do that is by taking quiet, slow steps and observing your breath.


By not being in a hurry to reach anywhere but enjoying the very act of walking.


By looking around you in peace, even if you happen to be in an otherwise chaotic city.


By keeping this in your mind even as you take the next step: we are all connected to each other and to objects and phenomena in the universe. By seeing some of these connections happen or transform into another connection.


By being full of gratitude for the life you have been given, for your ability to walk, for the wonder of observing things that are nothing short of miracles: a bird singing, a flower in bloom, a tree swaying in the wind, a star-spangled sky, a horizon full of possibilities.


By simply walking at a pace that’s in harmony with your soul’s yearning.


By observing the joy rising inside you as you keep walking, not keeping track of time.


By smiling at the thought of having the better sense to have left your smartwatch back at home.


By wishing all sentient beings the same peace and happiness you are feeling right now.


That, my dear, is how you do walking meditation, IMHO.


Happy walking.


Happy meditating.


Happy doing walking meditation.


Saturday, August 23, 2025

Totally useless reflections of a somewhat useful man

Image by Amariei Mihai on Unsplash
 

Where does time go? 

And what have you done in all that time?

Could you have done more?

After thousands of years of civilization and centuries of creating clocks, we still haven’t figured out “time”.

So, why do we allow this ungraspable beast to be one of the most defining measures of our life?

As I look back on my years on Earth, the fabric of time appears tattered, full of visible stitches.

“Mujhko bhi tarkeeb sikha koi yaar julahe,” Gulzar’s soulful yearning for the weaver’s ability to stitch the warp and weft of life as if it was never torn echoes in my mind as I embark upon these musings.

I had a thousand reasons to do the things I did, to take the decisions I ended up taking—landing exactly where I am today. Some of them were logical, most now seem illogical, driven primarily by the need of the moment or the less-than-perfect context we all operate with.

But there’s one single reason to rule them all: destiny. 

“Aakhir destiny bhi koi cheez hai,” I recall the words of Dhirubhai Ambani spoken for an occasion I forget. (Translation: After all, there’s something called destiny.)

I used to have many regrets but, ever since I started on my meditative journey a few years back, they have more or less melted away in the sea of existence. Waves come and go, come and go…until all I see is a tranquil ocean of happy peace.

Happy peace? What’s that? (Let's keep it for some other time, dear.)

Well, what perhaps still riles or amuses some of my friends is the innumerable number of job-switches I made in my career.

Career. What a funny word, loaded with effort, time, and tricks of fate.

There you go: time to face “time” again. Sometime back, I had written a post on “a quarter century” of my career and the lessons I learned along the way.

This time around, I’ve got news for you. There’s no longer any career as far as I’m concerned.

While you could attribute some of that to ChatGPT and its ilk, it’s mostly about reaching an age (and a stage) where you want to pick a few things out of the many thrown your way—and see what gives.

For me, one clear benefit of all those frequent “career moves” is that I’ve made lots of friends (In fact, I’m notorious for turning my bosses as well juniors into friends over time). 

Thankfully, they all throw something or the other to me every once in a while: “Catch, Sanjay!”

So, I catch some of those opps and let others bounce off.

But isn’t that an unpredictable, risky way to earn a living, you ask?

In reply, I would just say, from experience as well as some foresight, “Well, have you heard of the best laid plans of mice and men?” (The phrase is courtesy of the Scottish poet Robert Burns.)

All in all, people and most gods have been kind to me. Why, I have lived a fairly good, interesting life—and continue to look forward to the full-tosses and googlies in equal measure.

By monetary yardsticks, I have been moderately successful. Which is perfect for a guy who never ran after money and possibly never will (In retaliation, money didn’t run after me either, which is okay, for we both took a little walk together nonetheless.)

Besides, how much money would anyone need if they want to spend it on books, chai, and music?

Now, coming back to time, I don’t know how much of it is left—in absolute terms or for me per se. 

And, by the way, what happens to time when our crazy ways have brought apocalypse to the human race? (I have this hunch that not all species will go extinct before we do.)

Will the insects and the birds and the horses worry about where the hell did all the time go?

No, time will not tell!

Neither can I.

Let’s “circle back” in a few years, shall we?

Buh-bye for now.

Thursday, July 3, 2025

AIs Have Patterns; Humans Have Memories

 

Image by Claire on Unsplash

“Nostalgia is a sweet, incurable disease,” I remember posting this on one of my social feeds sometime back.

Now, why did this particular thought—and not anything else—surface as I began writing this post?

My best guess is that this post is about memories and AI, and because I’m generally a nostalgic creature, that’s what my brain came up with. But we would never know for sure.

These days, the increasingly capable AIs remember a lot of things, including from past conversations with you. And they are getting better at providing more relevant or contextual answers to your prompts.

But…but…

For all their monstrous computational prowess and the supposed ‘smarts’ of remembering, the AIs do not have memories—certainly not in the way humans have.

What the AIs have is a vast pool of data and the blazing-fast ability to pick out a matching pattern. It’s all statistics, mathematics, algorithms…and yes, the brute force of hundreds or thousands of CPUs and GPUs.

They can do all of that pattern-matching ad infinitum. But they have zero memories. None whatsoever.

It’s humans who have memories.

It’s humans who are transported back to a joyous moment in childhood at the touch of a scent from a favorite savory. 

It’s humans who zip across time to relive their crazy youth when a song from their college days turns up on the playlist.

And it’s humans again when a blurry video—stored somewhere in the AI cloud—of their wedding makes it vivid like it was yesterday, even when it’s played thirty or forty or fifty years later. 

The sounds, sights, and smells associated with each memory come calling to the doorstep of our mind as well.

AI can mimic (read ‘steal’) our art, our stories, our music. But it can never stop us from creativity and imagination (unless all you choose to do is watch reels and give bad prompts). 

And, of course, no AI can make and cherish memories like we humans do. Thankfully.